Just Drop a Comment

When do you find yourself grabbing that pen and paper? Is it during tough times when emotions are running high, and writing feels like a way to tackle the challenges life throws at you? Or is it in moments of pure joy, when even the ordinary things bring happiness, and you catch yourself smiling at everyone, even someone you’re not too fond of? Personally, I used to think I was most creative when feeling a bit down, not necessarily to express my feelings but to capture what I saw in small gatherings at barazas, the lively conversations in tailoring shops, the buzz in barbershops, or even the snippets of life heard in matatus. Writing about these observations used to be a kind of therapy for me. However, recent realities have hit me hard, filling my once-bright mind with empty thoughts that have taken away my usual good vibes.

I’m not looking for sympathy here, I’m just curious about how your year is going. Is it turning out to be good, or are you facing some challenges? While it might be early to ask, haven’t they said that you can sense the quality of a day from the morning? Let’s think of that metaphorically. From talking to a few people, it seems that, despite some initial confusion, many are finding this year to be interesting. What’s interesting is the lack of the usual flood of boring “happy new year messages” and the absence of big unachievable resolutions. Instead, people seem to be having more practical discussions, focusing on solid financial plans and pursuing their interests with passion.

Going through the current situation is a bit of a challenge for me, with the uncertainty of tomorrow hanging over. I’ve never been one to predict the future, and while it might seem a bit tricky, there’s a sense of hope pushing me forward. My plan is simple: prioritize things that bring me joy and stay away from things that bore, drain, or stress me. Essentially, I want to create a happy space for myself and those around me….

How’s your year going? Share your thoughts in the comments! Let’s connect every Tuesday or on any day that suits you (we can vote a day). I am thinking about throwing in some interviews and sharing stories about different places. Just drop a comment to let us know what you’re enjoying and experiencing this year, and also, what topics you’d like us to dive into. I’m thinking of adding some opinionated sections. So, drop a comment – your input is crucial in shaping our conversations. Feel free to join the discussion! Just drop a comment !

@okelododdychitchats

I Like it When

I like it when our eyes meet, that unexplainable chemistry sparking a connection that words struggle to capture.

I like it when I hug you, feeling the embrace envelop us in a cocoon of warmth, a comforting haven.

I like it when I hold your well-shaped waist, fingers tracing the curves that fit perfectly within my grasp.

I like it when your fingers surround my wide neck, each touch creating a melody that resonates in the air.

I like it when you walk in that short dress, admiring your beautiful legs like a beautiful piece of art painted with elegance and grace.

I like it when you cook your favorite meal, now a shared delight, the aroma telling stories of memories we create together.

I like it when you’re settled, calling me ‘love’ with that beautiful voice, each word a sweet note in our exquisite duet.

I like it when you kiss me, your tender lips finding mine, creating a dance of passion that lingers in the air.

I like it when you smile, illuminating every dark corner with love, a beacon of joy in the landscape of our shared moments.

I like it when you’re happy, sharing in your joy, a contagious happiness that becomes the rhythm of our days.

I like it when I miss you, the longing a reflection of the depth of our connection.

I like it when thoughts are all about you, a constant orbit around the gravitational pull of your presence.

I like it when I call you baby, a term of endearment that echoes the tenderness in my heart.

I like it when I sleep next to you, holding your tiny waist, our dreams twisting into a beautiful story.

I like it when I wake up to your morning smile and that good morning kiss, a perfect start to our shared day.

I like having you, just like I like this piece. Hope you do too, as it mirrors the depth of my feelings for you.

@okelododdychitchats