In the depths of my heart, there lies a tale yearning to be set free, a story of trials endured in my bush-league life. I seek to share the struggles we faced growing up, the rejections, and the tribulations we braved with unwavering resilience. Perhaps, in sharing my journey, I might inspire a soul or two, igniting a spark of hope in the hearts of those who listen.

But I find myself hesitating, held back by the haunting shadows of fear. Fear of being misconstrued as weak, or worse yet, a mere beggar seeking attention and cheap fame. Afraid of the judgmental eyes and the echoing laughter, I wonder if my words would be enough to express the depth of my emotions, fearing that I might leave important pieces of my story untold, only to regret it later.

Yet, amidst these fears, I long to break free from the suffocating silence that confines my thoughts. I yearn to unshackle myself from the heavy burden I carry within, to let my voice soar and release the weight of unsaid words. However, the fear persists, gnawing at my resolve, making me hesitant to embrace my vulnerability.

Afraid of becoming the topic of the day, I wrestle with the idea of being seen as a failure, deviating from the expectations that society places on the Y chromosome. The prevailing belief that men must practice stoic silence regardless of their struggles remains a formidable barrier. Yet, the desire to unburden myself, even if it’s just a whisper, still lingers.

So, for now, I will continue to live with a restrained voice, settling for a mere “okay” to conceal the stories yearning to be told. But deep within, the embers of courage burn, and one day, I hope to find the strength to speak freely, to liberate myself from the chains of fear, and to share my tale authentically, unafraid of the consequences.

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In your absence, the world feels dim,
With memories of you, my eyes brim,
Our time was short, yet oh so dear,
Your presence, a light that’s now unclear.

You had a way, a gentle grace,
A smile that could light up any space,
Your soul, so pure, and heart so kind,
In your warm presence, solace I’d find.

Oh, how I wish we had more days,
To share our hopes, our laughter, our ways,
But fate had other plans in store,
And now, I ache, my heart is sore.

I hear your voice within my mind,
A soft, sweet melody, so intertwined,
The dreams we shared, now left unmet,
A bitter pill that’s hard to forget.

I promise you, dear Yvonne, in your rest,
To hold your memory to my chest,
To live the life you would have wanted for me,
And cherish every moment, forever and free.

Farewell, my friend, my sister, my own,
Though you’ve departed, your love has grown,
In every heartbeat, you’ll still be near,
For the bond we forged knows no frontier.

Rest Well, Nyathiwa, among the stars,
In your embrace, we’ll heal the scars,
Your legacy of love will never fade,
In our hearts, your light will forever cascade.

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Beloved Son,

In the tapestry of life, the unexpected threads often weave the most magnificent patterns. Your arrival may have been met with skepticism by some, labeled as untimely or unwanted, but in my heart, it was a divine moment, carefully orchestrated to shape me into a man and your mother into a woman. As destiny unfolded, those who once doubted now cradle you with joy, for you are nothing short of a miraculous blessing.

My heart swells with gratitude as I look upon you, my dear son. Your presence has bestowed upon me an everlasting smile, rekindled hope in my soul, and granted me a resounding voice amidst the vast sea of humanity.

Allow me to share some invaluable guidance, which I hope you’ll carry in your heart with utmost care, shaping you into a beacon of old-school virtues among your peers. These words of advice, if embraced, shall set you apart and help you navigate life’s journey with wisdom and grace.

First and foremost, I pray for your strength—strength not just in body but in character, to face life’s challenges with unwavering resolve. May your mind be quick, agile, and open to new ideas, enabling you to make sound decisions that shape your destiny for the better.

As you grow, my son, remember that the world you inhabit may not always align with the values we hold dear. You will face temptations and be pulled in different directions, but I implore you to choose wisely. Be a virtuous example, a symbol of integrity and honor, rather than a cautionary tale in discussions about immorality.

Respect, my dear one, is the cornerstone of all relationships. Hold it firmly in both hands, for it is the foundation upon which trust and love are built. Treat every person you encounter with kindness, empathy, and dignity, for therein lies the essence of humanity.

I pray that you embrace knowledge, for learning is a lifelong journey. Let not ignorance be your companion, but instead, be hungry for knowledge, for it is the key to unlocking doors of opportunity and enlightenment.

May you have the courage to stand up for what is right, even when it feels daunting or unpopular. Be a source of light in times of darkness, a steadfast beacon of hope when others waver.

My dear son, the world may evolve, but timeless values and principles stand the test of time. As you take your place in this ever-changing tapestry of life, may you be the embodiment of goodness, love, and compassion.

With all my love,
Your Forever Grateful Father

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In the tender bloom of youth, she graced my world,
A vision of innocence and grace unfurled,
Her heart, a tapestry of love and care,
With a spirit so giving, beyond compare.

Her radiance, a beacon, shining bright,
A captivating soul, bathed in pure light,
Not only beauty that the eye could see,
But wisdom and wit, a symphony.

Life, though, had other plans in store,
Unleashing hardships, knocking at her door,
With each trial and tribulation she faced,
Her spirit trembled but never erased.

Why, I wondered, must good hearts endure,
Life’s cruel tests and suffering obscure?
Yet, through the darkness, she held her ground,
In her heart, a flicker of hope was found.

Though storms raged and skies turned gray,
She clung to dreams of a brighter day,
For happiness and hope, her sole desire,
To ignite her soul and set it on fire.

As seasons changed and time moved on,
Her resilience grew, steadfast and strong,
No longer defined by sorrow’s embrace,
But lifted by hope, she found her place.

In the symphony of life’s ebb and flow,
Her spirit danced, a resplendent glow,
And though the scars of past remained,
She learned to dance in the pouring rain.

Her story teaches, amid despair,
That hope and love can repair,
The wounded hearts, the weary souls,
And turn the darkest nights to gold.

So, let her journey inspire and remind,
That even when life seems unkind,
The strength within can pave the way,
To brighter, happier, love-filled days.

@okelododdychitchats

Once upon a time, in the swirling chaos of youth, I was innocent, a young boy with a mind sprouting like wildflowers in a meadow. My thoughts danced like butterflies, flitting from one idea to another, yet still so immature and uncertain.

Ah, back then, I lacked the courage to assert my own beliefs and make bold decisions. Instead, I found myself swept along with the currents of the masses—those headless, brainless herds. Like a leaf caught in a gust, I too was carried away.

But hear me out, it wasn’t all my fault. I had nothing to choose from but the well-worn pages of the books that dictated my path. “Follow this,” they said, “do that.” So, like a dutiful puppet, I pulled the strings of others’ expectations, desperate for their praises and attention.

Oh, forgive me if you can, for I was just a wide-eyed dreamer trying to grow my own garden of fame. They whispered sweet promises of recognition, and I, with my sprouting brain, couldn’t resist their seductive allure.

But I beg of you, please don’t let those memories chain me down. We all have chapters we’d rather not revisit. They thought for me, and I, in my naivety, willingly danced to their tunes.

Now, though, the seasons have turned, and I stand before you, a changed soul. I’ve learned the art of assertion, embracing the strength of my convictions. I’m ready to shoulder the burden of those past mistakes, not just for myself but on behalf of others too, as I owned my share of stupidity.

So, dear world, be kind and grant me your forgiveness. Let us pen a new chapter together, one where I’ve bloomed into a wiser, humbler being, no longer led astray by the false promises of empty fame. Let us walk hand in hand, weaving a tale of growth and redemption, leaving judgment and crucifixion behind in the dust of the past. Forgive me, as I forgive myself, and let us dance to the melody of a brighter future.

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Down the hill,
The sun shines so bright,
Warm yet cool in the best way possible,
Welcoming and bringing the color of hope and joy.

Down the hill,
The serenity of nature so quite,
The magical nature and trees all around,
Perfectly green,
Bringing solace in the surrounding.

But wait, what’s that I see ahead?
A mysterious cave, hidden in the shade,
Its entrance beckons with an eerie glow,
Whispering secrets of long ago.

Down the hill,
The flowing river has no noise,
So peaceful and serene is the voice,
A song to an aching ear.

But as I draw near, the waters part,
Revealing a pathway to the heart,
A portal to another realm, it seems,
Where reality blurs and fantasy gleams.

Down the hill,
Everything looks beautiful,
I can’t get enough of beautiful nature scenes,
I want to stay here, I want to keep enjoying the comfort.

Yet in the distance, a figure appears,
An ethereal presence, calming fears,
With each step closer, the world transforms,
As if touched by magic, it reforms.

I wish to stay with this peace that comes with nature forever,
But destiny calls, and I must endeavor,
To follow that elusive silhouette,
Into the unknown, where dreams are met.

Down the hill, the adventure unfolds,
Intriguing wonders yet to be told,
Nature’s beauty, a mere prelude,
To a journey where life’s mysteries elude.

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Hey there, let’s talk about the age-old saying, “Study hard and life will be easy.” It’s funny how that statement used to be like a magic spell, filling us with hope and excitement. Remember when we were kids? We believed in it with all our hearts. We thought success was just around the corner, waiting for us with open arms.

But you know what? Life doesn’t always follow that script. Sure, I’m a strong advocate for education – having those papers definitely gives you an edge. But let’s be real, having good grades and academic qualifications doesn’t always lead to a smooth road to success. Look around, and you’ll see the harsh reality of unemployment and wasted potential out there.

Some people argue that being street smart is the way to go, but seriously, how do you carry through to completion the idea without some capital in hand or some connection? Most of us start with a job, right? And even being academically smart doesn’t guarantee that you’ll be street smart or successful in business. It’s a whole different ballgame.

Let’s address the elephant in the room – unemployment. It’s been on the rise, and it’s heartbreaking to see so many young graduates struggling to find jobs. Education was supposed to be the great equalizer, but it seems like it’s not working as smoothly as we hoped.

I’ve heard stories of depression and desperation stemming from that frustration. It’s sad to see all those years spent in school seemingly wasted, with no clear path ahead. It makes you wonder, is it all worth it in the end?

With the increasing rate of unemployment and the soaring cost of living, it’s easy to feel like getting a degree is just a one-way ticket to misery. But you know what? I don’t believe that’s entirely true. I think there are solutions out there if we’re willing to put our heads together and make some changes.

We need well-thought-out and practical strategies to address this problem. Not just random money-grabbing schemes that don’t consider the real issues at hand. Let’s involve the experts and the affected individuals in creating these strategies. Pilot them, see the results, and make improvements based on the outcomes. Let’s be inclusive and relevant in our hiring processes. It’s unfair to reject a qualified candidate just because of something unrelated to the job.

We didn’t sign up for this level of frustration and disappointment. Sure, it might not be anyone’s sole responsibility, but that doesn’t mean we can’t do something about it. It’s time to take action, be proactive, and find real solutions.

So, yes, education is valuable, but it’s time to rethink our approach and consider the changing landscape of employment. We can turn this crisis around with collective effort and the willingness to make meaningful changes. Let’s not allow our dreams to be shattered in a sea of unemployment. We’re better than that, and together, we can create a brighter future for all.

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Have you ever thought about the immense potential that lies within the realm of customer service? I must admit, I used to view it as a mundane task, a waste of intelligence. However, my perspective took a complete turn when I realized that customer service is not just about answering inquiries or resolving complaints. It’s an incredible opportunity to offer assistance and gather valuable feedback from customers, both before and after they experience a product or service. In my unbiased opinion, customer service is not only a crucial element of Public Relations, but it also plays a vital role in shaping an organization’s image and driving improvement.

Let’s be honest, customer service often receives little respect. Yet, it holds the power to transform our thinking and business approaches. As customer service agents interact with customers, they gain valuable insights and ideas that not only benefit the organization but also broaden their own perspective on business strategies. It becomes the backbone of a business, serving as the direct link between the company and its customers. It has the power to make or break a business—ever heard people talking about how terrible a company’s customer service is? That negative perception can seriously hinder a company’s growth. Every comment and feedback should be taken seriously because they hold the potential for change.

As a professional in Public Relations and Corporate Communications, I firmly believe in corporate professionalism and integrity. I hold an unwavering stance that every organization should prioritize the establishment of a professional, sustainable, and well-planned customer service department. This extends beyond call center agents to include sales representatives on the ground. Achieving this requires proper training and a quality assurance process built on integrity.

Moreover, it is crucial to lend a listening ear to customer service agents and implement their productive suggestions. Ultimately, a well-structured and feedback-oriented customer service strategy benefits the organization by maximizing profits. Yes, you read that right—customer service is income generating! We’ll dive deeper into this aspect in future discussions.

In conclusion, I strongly advocate for the recognition of customer service as a career of high status and priority. The personnel hired for customer service roles should possess character traits that embrace empathy, patience, and exceptional communication skills. Additionally, there should be standardized metrics in place to ensure that customer service delivers real value to the organization.

So, let’s unleash the power of customer service and witness its diverse contributions to the growth of organizations. It’s time to embrace this essential component and pave the way for business success through exceptional customer experiences and feedback-driven improvements.

@okelododdychitchats

Let’s dive into the topic of romantic love, shall we? I like to describe love as a bittersweet experience. It starts off as a ray of sunshine, radiating warmth and energy into our lives. But it’s funny how love can switch on and off like a faucet, and sometimes it can even feel like a grave mental disease. Love, to me, is a perfect oxymoron—a strange and phenomenal concept.

My perspective might seem a little unusual, shaped by the darker side of relationships. I’ve witnessed what people do in the name of love, and the fear of not being reciprocated, of pouring your energy into someone who may not hold onto it. That’s why I believe that love can happen without attachment and all those abnormal and bizarre behaviours associated with commitment and consistency. I mean, think about it—why should we go through all that pain and suffering just because someone doesn’t love us back? It’s a losing game. There’s no point in doing your part and then the other person decides to call it quits with no reason. At that point, you become a victim, as good as someone in endless therapy sessions battling depression.

Can you imagine being depressed because of someone who doesn’t even care about you anymore? It’s messed up! They’ve moved on and probably don’t even remember a single thing about you. It’s not right to suffer in the name of love. I believe it’s important to heal as quickly as possible and move on after a breakup. I’ve been a victim of such toxic situations myself, going through stupid and unexplainable circumstances that I wouldn’t wish upon anyone. It’s just not fair to fall into depression because we loved blindly. We need to let go and move forward. It’s healthier that way!

Now, don’t get me wrong. I am a firm believer in love. I believe it exists, but it can only work between people who naturally sync. Love should never be forced or labelled just for the sake of it. It’s not about all those things we see on social media that we try to copy and paste into our lives. Love is natural, and when it’s natural, it’s incredibly hard to stop. So, here’s my takeaway: don’t lose yourself or sacrifice your well-being because of love. Love should make us happy, not feel like a never-ending dull day. Love should be cherished and experienced with keenness.

In the end, love is a complex journey, but it’s one worth taking. It’s about finding that special connection with someone who brings joy to our lives. And if we ever find ourselves in a situation where love turns sour, remember that it’s okay to let go and move on. After all, life is too short to be weighed down by the past. So, let’s embrace love with open hearts and keen minds, and remember to prioritize our own happiness along the way.

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In the bustling crowd of the City,
There was a girl whose beauty was undeniable,
With delicate features, radiant eyes and a smile that could light up the darkest corners,
She possessed an ethereal allure that captivated anyone who laid eyes upon her,
Her hair flowing like silk in cascading waves, framed her face like a halo, further enhancing her enchanting beauty!

Yet, despite her captivating beauty,
Her life was entangled in the shame of gold-digging and the web of lies,
Fabricating stories and exaggerating her circumstances to elicit sympathy and financial support,
Her lies extended beyond material gain, manipulating emotions and relationships to serve her own interests,
Beauty Wasted in Lies !

She manipulated her attractive physical appearance to her advantage,
Using her beauty and charisma to extract what she desires,
Her true character masked by a superficial charm, making it difficult for others to see through her facade,
She lacked genuine empathy and disregarded the well-being of others as long as her own desires were filled,
Beauty Wasted in Lies !

Despite her outward beauty,
Her inner ugliness tarnished her reputation,
Her behavior ultimately led to broken trust and damaged relationships,
As her manipulative nature became apparent over time.

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